Well, last week's post about my job was some sort of catalyst. It -- along with a few other incidents during the week -- convinced me that my job was not where I wanted to be. And on Friday I quit!
Today is my first day of real freedom and I couldn't be happier. At the moment I'm not planning on finding another full-time job. I got a pretty amazing freelance writing position (I'll disclose more details once it's started) and while it won't be nearly enough work to support me, it has convinced me that writing for a living is actually a possibility. Until that happens, I'll be cobbling together various jobs and planning my permanent escape.
The truth is that I had been contemplating quitting my last job since my first week there. For the first month, it was due to my HORRIBLE coworker, who was rude and irrational to the point of insanity. One example:
I am sitting at my desk during the first week. She comes over to my desk and hands me a box.Horrible Coworker: [Redacted] wants you to go through these receipts. Give the box back to me when you're done.
The box is full of approximately 2 million receipts, just loose and floating around.
Me: Wait, what do you mean by 'go through'? Does she want me to organize them by card or date or what?
Horrible Coworker: I don't know! She just told me to tell you to go through them and I've told you, so now my job is done!
She huffs off.
Yes. This is not exaggerated. The girl also threatened to get me fired and told another coworker she wasn't going to train me fully because then they'd have a reason to keep her around. I hope she's having fun doing her old job today....
I also quit because the company was totally shady: underpaying workers, misfiling them as independent contractors so the owners wouldn't have to pay employment taxes and in the meantime making all these extravagant personal purchases. There were also no benefits, not even paid sick days. When I quit, I told the owner of the company I didn't like the way he ran his business for all the reasons above and I think he was in shock. The only thing he said was, "So that's it? No notice, just this is your last day?" I said, "Well, you've treated me like a temporary employee, so I'm going to treat this like a temporary job."
Which is probably as close to "You can take this job and shove it" as I'm ever going to get.
I'm now organizing a mass IRS and California Labor Board complaint submission. It's amazing how many people have come out of the woodwork to offer support and commiseration. Meanwhile, I've been on this puffy cloud of post-quitting euphoria. I've been writing, cooking, laughing and talking to friends. On Thursday I'm flying up to Seattle with Rob to visit my family, his first time seeing my mom and stepdad since a brief dinner almost four years ago. Today I'm going to eat ice cream and go jogging in a nearby park. I've spent the morning working on my screenplay for Script Frenzy (a story for another day). The sun is shining.
So things are good here. How are you?
Comments (11)
ha! good for you for telling them to shove it. they should understand that they can be treated like sh*t if they treat their employees that way. sounds like your new "job" will be better than your old one! huzzah!
Posted by gleek | April 7, 2008 4:46 PM
Hoorah! Good for you!
Posted by April | April 7, 2008 7:45 PM
Good for you, Anjali! I hope your new lifestyle works out just great. It sounds like you are enjoying it so far! Take care!!
Posted by molly! | April 7, 2008 9:49 PM
Congratulations on getting your freedom!
Posted by alice | April 8, 2008 12:28 AM
Rock on. You did the right thing! I'm sure you've read this article:
http://mv.lycaeum.org/M2/ventura.html
Have a great day!
Posted by Mariko | April 8, 2008 8:20 AM
Ohhh, congratulations, and I am so envious!!
Hahah, I've taken a couple of small steps myself, the first of which was to go get the Anti-9-to-5 book out of the library; I'm through chapter 1. Secondly, I had a major discussion with my mother in which I may have pinned down what job I want to be doing. *sigh* If only I wasn't so scared to death that I will get into something else and hate it just as much... I will try to take inspiration from your courage. :D
Best of luck in your new endeavors!
Posted by Julie | April 8, 2008 9:49 AM
Good for you! Congrats! I wish you much success where ever your journey takes you (first to Seattle, which is where I am, so that's cool).
Posted by Kirsten | April 8, 2008 8:41 PM
Sounds great! If this is how you feel, then it definitely was the right decision - thosedo usually make one feel exhilarated etc. :)
I just started a 9 to 2 job (but three weekdays only), which is lovely, with nice coworkers etc - as I'm still a student it's like slowly getting to know the 'real' (working) world. Not sure yet if this is the thing for me - probably not, hah - but for the time being it's great to have some fixed employment.
Posted by Barbara | April 9, 2008 10:03 AM
YAY! YAY! YAY! OMG! OMG! OMG! YAY!
Okaym it's both - but enjoy a little down time, and then get back on the horse - just pick a nicer horse. Health insurance is a really nice thing to have.
Cheers!
Posted by Moda di Magno | April 9, 2008 2:47 PM
Thanks for all the sweet and supportive comments! I've been seriously enjoying my two weeks of freedom, and am probably going to start temping soon. I think a lot of my job stress comes from thinking, "Oh my god -- my life is going to be like this FOREVER," which will hopefully be alleviated by knowing the job is temp. And I'm working on some writing projects on the side!
Posted by Anjali | April 18, 2008 1:04 PM
As you get older, minor stopovers like this job will matter even less. There's a wonderful boss out there who's looking for you. Or even better, figure out a way to become the wonderful boss yourself.
Posted by Fred Harris | April 24, 2008 11:48 AM